Thank you for your fair post! In my personal development quest, I promised and it took me some time to hold myself and not always sharing opinion, answering or arguing with people ( live or especially on social media) as an act of accepting others, leave them be as they are. It proved to be healing for me. I guess that may be in near future I will find the right balance for me - when to speak up, and when to let it go!
It is an art for sure! In matters of needing subtlety i generally don’t give my opinion unless people ask and even then I request permission to tell the truth… however when pieces are opinions in public domain and they have requests for comments and discussion I like to join in if I have an opinion … I endeavour to be respectful .. it just disappoints me if my opinion is not considered to be part the narrative and hence gets deleted 😞
It is a lonely task at times.. however I have determined to give myself 20 minutes a day to get cancelled :-)
Thank you for your fair post! In my personal development quest, I promised and it took me some time to hold myself and not always sharing opinion, answering or arguing with people ( live or especially on social media) as an act of accepting others, leave them be as they are. It proved to be healing for me. I guess that may be in near future I will find the right balance for me - when to speak up, and when to let it go!
Couldn't agree more. Seeing it's happening is one thing, but challenging it requires being secure and grounded in one's values.
It is an art for sure! In matters of needing subtlety i generally don’t give my opinion unless people ask and even then I request permission to tell the truth… however when pieces are opinions in public domain and they have requests for comments and discussion I like to join in if I have an opinion … I endeavour to be respectful .. it just disappoints me if my opinion is not considered to be part the narrative and hence gets deleted 😞